Financial Relationships: Love, Money and Betrayal

Hey Bountiful Bombshell,

We love to have you here with us, in the transformative world of Honeygold Love, the luxurious space for flourishing, thriving, and up-leveling into your truest, brilliant wealth radiance.

Have you ever felt as though your financial relationships significantly impacted your financial health negatively?

As social beings, the desire for belonging is a natural part of the human framework. This desire has been especially cultivated within women after years of generational and societal conditioning. As a result, we focus more of our attention and effort towards our ability to benefit others, than we save for our own well-being, satisfaction, and enjoyment.

The traumas of abandonment, rejection, and betrayal have intensely contributed to our desire to connect – and this desire has been a primary driver leading us to make unhealthy decisions while seeking and nurturing our financial relationships. We get caught in the loop of attachment trauma that propels us to make harmful decisions such as:

• Inviting someone into your private space/home too quickly.
• Paying the bill at restaurants for others more frequently than they do for you.
• Spending a significant amount of money in the early stages of a connection to “win” the other person.
• Paying your partner’s bills/debt.
• Giving a significant other access to your financial information within a short period of knowing them.

The above are just to name a few. There are countless other ways in which we prioritize our attachment to connection over our own financial stability and growth.

Let’s take a big breath! You’re not alone, Bombshell!

Understanding Your Financial Relationships

Let’s break this down. Essentially, the root of why we prioritize connection over healthy financial decisions boils down to Adverse Childhood Experiences. These experiences occurred when our needs for love, affection, and connection were not met by our primary caregivers in the specific ways we needed them to be met. As we grew older, this need never went away; it remained trapped in our psyches – The Inner Child.

The inner child is an inner avatar in our subconscious and unconscious psyches. Any need that we did not get fulfilled in our childhoods caused a disruptive freeze-like (frozen) emotional stamp. Our Inner Child is an active part of our adult psyches and is still seeking for these needs to be met. Since this avatar is in our sub/unconscious, we are often unaware that “she/he” is in the driver seat of our decision-making process for our financial relationships.

As a wealth transformation coach, a large part of my coaching is dedicated to guiding my clients to foster a deep connection with their Inner Child. Instead of an unconscious relationship with your desire for connectivity – where your financial decisions are being unknowingly influenced by this need – I will guide and encourage you to foster a healthy relationship with your desire for connection. With great care and compassion, I will lead you in creating a profoundly deep connection to your Inner Child where you lovingly allow this part of your psyche to be a child and receive deep connection from the Adult You, thereby placing your Adult Self in the driver’s seat for your financial decisions.

A core truth I want to share with you is that you are so very worthy! I see you – and I acknowledge your deep desire for connection – and wealth. The traumas of your childhood may have impacted numerous aspects of your life – and the work needed towards repairing and reconditioning your inner child may seem daunting, but it is tremendously important to reconcile with the Inner Child to create the thriving, wealthy life you desire. Doing this work is a sacred act of self-love which will have ripple effects in multiple areas of your life.

What Honeygold Love, and the ‘Love, Money and Betrayal Masterclass’, offers to you is the opportunity to begin your healing journey, by guiding you away from your false beliefs and core wounds towards your true, natural blueprint of value.

In this upcoming FREE Masterclass, we will explore the Inner Child further, and delve into the traumas that caused these disruptions. During our time together, you will also receive a 20-30 minute embodiment practice to open up / develop that relationship with your inner child. You will meet with the inner child and begin the process of understanding your inner child’s unmet needs. With this Masterclass, you are going to embark on your Inner Child/Adult You (Self) reconciliation process. Stay tuned for the Masterclass date/time!

Until next time, my Empowered Empress

Xoxo,

Hema Love